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    Claudia B Vogas

    3 years, 9 months ago

    On Friday around 1pm, my Mom, the generous, strong, fierce, super stubborn superwoman who was also a fantastic listener, decided to let go and leave us behind. She waited to go until she saw her son-in-law, her son, and her daughter at her bedside.

    It was a miracle that things happened how they happened. She fell soooooooo many times when she was alone. And she got hurt but thank God never so bad that it would cause a hospital stay, just a hospital visit here and there to make sure nothing worse was going on.
    The one time, she falls when she is not alone, my hubby, my good friend Manuela, her son, myself, and our daughter, she loses her balance and falls backward. I step into the way hoping I could stop her fall but it was too late. We both got hurt. Me enough to go on sick leave. My Mom so bad she went for eternal leave 4 days later.

    My Mom was not a believer. How do you mourn when you don’t know if the person you are mourning for was a believer or disciple of Christ (her repenting while in coma)?

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      Erinn
      3 years, 9 months ago

      Condolences ~ I truly hope you find comfort. Perhaps she found the way while in her trapped state. Jesus can find us anywhere. People do have secret changes in heart… and maybe she did before the fall. There is always hope. Just hug yourself regularly and let yourself mourn. I will pray for your healing – the heart and body, heal. To evaporate your anxiety and fill with peace~ I will pray tonight in my insomnia. God woke meI have the same fears for my mom. I have accepted in her terminal state that what happens deep in her heart can change ANY time in secret as fast as lightening.

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      David Hansen
      3 years, 9 months ago

      Thanks sister for sharing your grief and I am praying for you as well. Your question is such a good one and may not be uncommon. How do we mourn for those who we do not know if they were a believer or even repented? For me, I have come to accept there are some questions that Father Yah has not revealed the answers to, at this time. You loved your Mom unconditionally and she loved you the same. Mourn for her as you would for any loved one , cherishing those special memories . May our Father fill you with the peace that surpasses understanding.