Thanks Brother Martin for your courage to share what you are dealing with in your spiritual battle. You know that sin is the transgression of the law and it is something we are all guilty of. I love logging into the Unlearn forum and reading posts from everyone as it inspires me to pray for others and bear other’s burdens.

Overcoming is a process. As long as you continue to fight back against the enemy, you know he will continue to tempt you and put stumbling blocks in your way. You will have good days and bad. Again, we all do. The good news is that Yah will not let you be tempted beyond what you can bear.
What I have found helpful is that when I wake up in the morning , I cry out to the Holy Spirit listing the sins that I struggle with and ask for help resisting them throughout that day,
Fasting and prayer will also help strengthen you. Rejoice in your good days. Don’t let the enemy lead you into depression on your bad days. Fight the good fight brother.

Hopefully what I am writing you will make some sense and prove helpful. Also Martin, your English is better than you think it is so there’s never a need to apologize to anyone.
You are in my prayers my friend.

Good day Martin, I’d like to also send you confirmation in what David replied to you about the power of prayer and fasting when it comes to overcoming sin. All bible citations are derived from the King James Version Bible so that you get proper context to what I am about to say.
—————————————————————————————————————————————————-
Before confirmation, I’d like to add that the fact that you were willing to confess your sin like that openly shows a humility that the Pharisees did not possess. This is a very good sign as both James and Peter say God resists the proud and gives grace to the humble ( James 4:6 | 1 Peter 5:5 ). Continue on to search yourself daily for how you can get closer to God as you are now.
—————————————————————————————————————————————————-
Now allow me to go point by point with you:
1) Remember that we all fall short because we have all sinned ( Romans 3:23 | 1 John 1:10 ) and so we ought have patience with one another ( 1 Timothy 6:11 ) and forgive the trespasses of one another through such patience ( Matthew 18:21-35 ) so that we also may be forgiven our trespasses ( Matthew 6:5-15 ). What you said here shows that you have a repentant heart and you do love God. Recall then that God loves all of us ( John 3:16-21 ) and wills that we should turn to a life of righteousness. Recall also that Jesus did not come to call the righteous but sinners to repentance ( Matthew 9:9-13 ). Recall lastly that Jesus, while being crucified on the cross by the Jews, petitioned God to forgive them ( Luke 23:34 ). Therefore have patience with Muslims and Jews who deny Christ as they know not what they do as we did not also when in darkness. Find forgiveness for them in your heart and endure with long suffering by following the example of Christ.
—————————————————————————————————————————————————-
2) When you start to consider that we all have souls that lack racial qualities it becomes easier to see people through that lens. It was commanded by Christ that we are to testify of Him and that repentance and remission of sins should be preached to all nations ( Luke 24:45-47 ). Christ values every soul regardless of what nation they are from. If this were not so then us former Gentiles would have no place in Heaven. As we were accepted so should we accept others.
—————————————————————————————————————————————————-
3) A proper fear of God will help with this one. Check out Lex’s video on YouTube: “Do You Fear God?” and combine that with what scripture says about a lying tongue. Let the law and might of God cause conviction in you that leads to righteousness ( Exodus 20:18-21 ).
—————————————————————————————————————————————————-
4) This is where the power of prayer and fasting comes in as there are some demons that are so ingrained in us that we need to do warfare with them in a more powerful nature ( Matthew 17:18-21 ). To share my testimony with you I also had this issue. It was not until I did a ten day water fast with prayer and reading scriptures that I started to see results. I lost about 20 lbs and had to battle irritation, depression, and anxiety as well, however, pushing through the temptation to eat food at all and making it through the ten day period on just water greatly boosted my self control. After prayer and fasting followed by deleting everything adult related this reduced my consumption of adult materials from daily to once every two weeks. After a few weeks I did a 24 day Daniel fast ( just fruits and vegetables ) with prayer. It’s been over a month since I have engaged in those activities. I hope that helps you as it has me. I will warn you: During the process you will have dreams about it which is a good sign that your subconscious is detoxing from adult materials. Do not cave in from those dreams. Set up safe guards by keeping electronic devices in another room until you gain full control. Resist the devil and he will flee from you ( James 4:7 ).
—————————————————————————————————————————————————-
If you want to get dates with women then you should seek the advice of a dating coach so you can better understand women. I’ve used Corey Wayne with success, however, you must be willing to disregard his teachings about fornication as that is sinful. He will at least give good advice in understanding women better to help you get dates. Be cautious in seeking women as not all follow God and women have been used in the bible to lead children of God into sin.
—————————————————————————————————————————————————-
In conclusion, seek God with fear and trembling, love God by obeying His commandments, rely on the sacrifice of Jesus Christ for forgiveness of you sins, forgive others as you were forgiven, pray and fast, study the scriptures, be patient with others, continue in humility, remember your own flaws as to not judge others, resist the devil that he will flee, and you will be okay. It takes time but you can do it!
—————————————————————————————————————————————————-
Hope that helps.